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Dear Felicia,

Frankly, under Feng Shui (Pillars of Destiny) there is no direct application to improve one's relationship.

This is because the closes concepts is based on Pillars of Destiny (Ba Zhi). However, Ba Zhi has an `escape clause' which says that it can map out one's Heaven map e.g. of a person and his/her luck.

However, our education, parents influence, our experiences can change our heaven's luck.

In my opinion, it is better to use other `educational' techniques or behaviour model e.g. child psychology etc...

For now, the closest I believe Pillars of Destiny can help is to do a Pillars of Comparison Chart to find the binding elements of two parties. This module is available to members of geomancy-online.com.

The module takes into account a detailed analysis of each individuals `clashes' etc.. to analyse against each other's Ba Zhi. Here, the entire pillar segment of a person is looked at and checked against a second person.

Other than the above, I cannot see anyone else making claims that relationships can be solved by other `Feng Shui' means.

Under `kindergarden' Feng Shui techniques some FS practitioners would advise you to place e.g. a bouqet of flowers or a picture of your family at your " relationship " corner e.g. at SW sector of say a room or living room.

I hope to act as a catalyst and also to point out the various techniques used.

At the same time, I like to share with everyone my frank opinion of what I personally think.

I leave it to each of us to make our own judgements.

More research would be needed to see how effective any other theories can be effectively used to help `solve' relationship problems.

The caution here is that some FS practitioners may use the guise of `Secret' this and Secret that to make it mysterious for everyone.

I do not believe in it and would like to come openly to share with each and everyone what we have found so far.

We will continue to work on enhancements to such models.

Otherwise, relationships are complex and it is better to use other means rather than I believe rely or trust too much on `Feng Shui' (Pillars).

Warmest Regards,
Cecil

On 12/30/99 1:02:40 AM, Felicia Lin wrote:
>I just began learning about
>feng shui. I would like to
>improve the
>relationship between our
>family members, especially
>between me and my
>daughter. My daughter is 8
>years old and she came to the
>age that she
>has her own mind and argues
>with you all the time (or
>maybe it is me
>that causing her not to
>listen). She is very good at
>school and at the
>day care but somehow she
>becomes a different type of
>person at home.
>
>Actually, the main thing I
>really want to change is my
>own attitude. I
>like to be more patient and
>not get angry all the time. I
>get angry or
>run out of patient with my
>daughter and husband very
>easy. I think there
>must be something wrong in my
>house. Is there any Feng Shui
>cure?
>
>Thanks!
>